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Saturday, October 31, 2009

準時放班的十個理由

 
企管專家認為,不管辦公室有多少工作,時間到了最好就離開,不僅如此,最好五點就下班 。
「怎麼可能?那麼事情更做不完」你心裡不以為然的想。先別急,聽聽專家的理由是什麼 。


1.讓你更有效率 :
多數的辦公室工作十分繁瑣,沒有明確的開始與結束。正由於事情千頭萬緒,你很容易這個做一點、那個進行一半,結果沒有一件有結果,迫使你以加班來趕工,一方面也安慰自己的心理。但是,如果你的下班時間是五點,那麼你就得盤算一下,在一天有限的時數內,該先做那些和同事聊天,多用點時間思考都好!一昧埋頭長時間工作而不思考,容易做虛工,而且會失去看事情的整體觀。


2.對你的上司有教育作用:
不要過度擴大上司對你的期望;如果你常常讓上司看到你留下來加班,他會開始認為你很願意加班,久了就變成你應該加班。不要讓上司以工作時間的長短來評估你的表現。


3. 對你的屬下有教育作用:
讓你的屬下學著在有限的時間內,分配工作的優先次序。明確的表示你下班就會離開,到時候他們應該完成的工作或報告,就應該交到你桌上。


4.迫使你釐清價值觀:
想清楚你生命中最重要的是家庭或是工作?當然不加班、不拼命工作,可能讓你失去更多表現機會,錯過加薪與升遷。但是你不會辛苦工作像條狗似的,到了四、五十歲,突然覺得愧對家人、愧對自己的生命。


5.讓你走在時代尖端:
企管顧問觀察到一個趨勢,這兩年愈來愈多的人認為,生命中比工作重要的東西還有更多;工作時間長的人不再被視為英雄,反而被看成不懂生命的人。現在懂得拒絕長時間工作的人,將是未來的領導人物。


6.讓偶一為之的加班變得有趣:
常常加班,同事之間會生膩,合作的興奮感也全無。如果大家平常準時下班,碰到緊急狀況或工作時,大夥晚上一起留在辦公室;有人從外面提了便當走進來,一邊吃飯、一邊討論,這時候很容易顯出團隊合作的革命情感。


7.讓你免於枯竭的惡性循環:
你愈加班,愈覺得事情做不完;愈覺得事情做不完,工作就拖的愈長。這樣的惡性循環遲早會讓你崩潰。

8. 讓你善用休閒時間:
工作之餘的時間不應只是休息、睡覺,以便讓你第二天有精力繼續工作。何不培養些興趣? 如果你五點下班,你可以有時間去學外語、去彈吉他、參加才藝活動,這會讓你成為一個更活潑、更有能力、更有趣的人。


9. 會讓你更健康:
並不是抽空去打球、上健身房、跳韻律操才叫使身體健康,人的身體也需要其他的方式來維持活力。比方說,好整以暇的喝杯茶、慢慢的品味一個甜美多汁的水蜜桃、靜靜擁抱你喜愛的人等等。而這些都不是每週工作五、六十個小時的人所能做的。


10. 讓你更懂得去愛:
你是不是很久沒有和三、五好友一起說笑狂歡了?你是不是每天都和另一半、和孩子或父母匆匆打個照面?你是不是難得和所愛的人交換生活的心情?五點一到,放下你的工作,多接近那些對你很重要的人。以後他們記得的不是你的升遷、你的成就,而是和他們共處的時光 。
 


Tuesday, October 27, 2009

無論是朋友或是情侶... 我認為互相尊重係好緊要...

冷靜左幾日, 其實我知道我自己想要乜野

 

希望大家對待感情事, 都可以多一點理智

 

很多事唔係一句對唔住就可以解決... 感情變左, 亦唔係話咁易回復完狀...
做得愈多野, 只會帶黎愈大既反效果...
最後可能連朋友都做唔成...
咁何必呢


Sunday, October 25, 2009

Yesterday is History. Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Present.

I should remember this...


A real boyfriend

Don't care if you have/are a boyfriend or girlfriend right now.
I don't care if you are a guy or a woman
Just read this, it will make a difference.
If only everyone could see this and understand it.


When she stares at your mouth
Kiss her

When she pushes you or hits you like a dummie cause she thinks shes stronger than you
Grab her and dont let go

When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough
Kiss her and tell her you love her

When she's quiet
Ask her whats wrong

When she ignores you
Give her your attention

When she pulls away
Pull her back

When you see her at her worst
Tell her she's beautiful

When you see her start crying
Just hold her and don't say a word

When you see her walking*
Sneak up and hug her waist from behind*

When she's scared
Protect her

When she steals your favorite hoodie
Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she teases you
Tease her back and make her laugh

When she doesn't answer for a long time
reassure her that everything is okay

When she looks at you with doubt
Back yourself up

When she says that she loves you
she really does more than you can understand

When she grabs at your hands
Hold her's and play with her fingers

When she bumps into you;
bump into her back and make her laugh

When she tells you a secret
keep it safe and untold

When she looks at you in your eyes
dont look away until she does

When she says it's over
she still wants you to be hers

When she reposts this bulletin
she wants you to read it

**and when she says something and she doesnt mean it
forgive her and know she loves you more than anything in the world

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

- When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

-Treat her like she's all that matters to you

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes

-When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

-Let her know she's important.

- Don't talk about other girls around her

- Kiss her in the pouring rain*

- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Whose ass am i kicking baby?"


If you do post this in the next four minutes the one you love will :

Call you
Kiss you
Love you
Text you


Guys post as: "I'd be this Boyfriend.

Girls post as: "A real boyfriend"

and if you do not re-post this within 4 minutes and tag 13 people.
you'll have bad luck
with the one you love


Thursday, October 01, 2009

黃毅力

試想像一下這是怎麼樣的一種經驗:有一家銀行,每天早上七時正把八萬六千四百元正自動存入一個帳戶,戶口持有人要立即開始使用,要不斷花,還在凌晨零時之前全數花個清光,帳戶中的任何餘額不能轉帳到其他 戶口,也不能積存,時間一到,結餘金額即時歸零。

若這個戶口裏的錢全屬於你,你會怎樣處理呢?也許生性怕吃虧的人必定想法子每天盡快把戶口的錢盡情花光。這並不是一個虛構的故事,而是活生生、每天也在發生的事情。我們每一個人,在每一天都有這樣的經歷,我們其中一個銀行帳戶,不用申請、不用簽名,只不過戶口裏面的不是錢,而是我們的「時間」。

每天早上七時,時間把八萬六千四百秒存進我們的生命,到了明早,一整天的光陰便全數報銷,無論我們用了多少,沒有一分一秒可轉帳到明天才用;不夠花的,也不能預支明天的半分半秒。所以我們要適當地運用自己在生命中的時間,才不會招致損失、虛耗或遺漏,一切由自己來負責和承擔後果,走在這條不能往回頭走的路上,也沒有未來可供透支。

記着 時間不會等人
在這個大都會中的都市人大部分都在浪費光陰,把時間投資在沒有價值的娛樂或工作之上。人總有一死,時間到了,自有無盡時間長眠,為何如今好端端的活着,卻在晨光初現的早上賴在牀上睡大覺。愈早起來的人愈精神,我們應該好好運用時間銀行每天給我們寶貴的八萬六千四百秒,用來強健我們的身體、換取最大的成功和快樂,要記着時間不會等人

如果你想體會人生的光陰有多重要,你可以探訪善終的病人;如果你要體會一年有多少重要,你可以去問一位留班生重讀的感覺;如果你要體會一個月有多重要,你可以問供樓的人或出糧給夥計的老闆感受;如果你要體會一星期有多重要,你可以問一問周刊的編輯;如果你要體會一小時有多重要,你可以問一對熱戀中的情人;如果你要體會一分鐘有多重要,你可以去問曾經死過翻生,逃離意外的幸運者;如果你要體會一秒有多重要,你可以問一位成功的企業家每一秒的重要性;如果你要體會一毫秒有多重要,你可以問問奧運短跑金牌的選手。

我們實在老得太快,卻是聰明得太遲,所以我更希望大家把握當下。西方有一句話說Yesterday is History. Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Present. 意思是昨天已成為歷史,明天則遙不可知,而今天是一份禮物(Present),每天的時間都是上天賜給我們最好的禮物。希望大家把握光陰,珍惜當下。
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read this note from Glenn's facebook, like it so much... haha~
 



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